7 Ways to Have a Happier Holiday

posted by Aby Garvey on December 13, 2012 2 Comments

7 steps to a happier holiday - from simplify101

If you find yourself in the midst of this holiday season wishing to trade in all the hustle bustle for a bit more happiness, you’re not alone!  Here’s a collection of some of my top holiday organizing tips to help you create a merrier season. 

  1. The best gift you can give your loved ones this holiday season is your own joy and happiness. Sometimes we can get so caught up in buying or making gifts that we lose sight of this. Focus on joy and you’ll make this the best holiday season for you and your loved ones!
  2. Make a holiday to-do list. Prioritize the tasks that are most important and most meaningful to you and your loved ones. This way, you are sure to cover the activities that matter and know which ones you can let slide.
  3. Take a look at your ongoing tasks and activities, and see what can be eliminated or deferred until after the holidays. During the holidays, we often try to add so many other activities into our already full calendars. What can you set aside in order to fit in the extra holiday events?
  4. If you’re faced with a particularly daunting item on your holiday to-do list, break it down into bite-sized steps to make it more manageable. For example, rather than putting “send holiday cards” on your to-do list, break it up into “order cards, write X cards per day, address cards, stamp and mail cards.” By checking the individual steps off your list, you’ll feel more motivated to complete the project.
  5. Make a list of everyone you need to buy gifts for and any ideas you have in mind. Then, keep your list with you throughout the season. Whether it’s in a holiday binder, on a piece of notepaper, or on your smart phone, having the list with you will help you avoid overbuying, overspending, or making the last-minute shopping trip for the gift you forgot!
  6. Let go of “should” and instead ask “what if?” Asking what if can help you realize that some of your expectations may be unrealistic.
  7. Make gratitude part of a daily phone call or email chat with a friend or loved-one. Making a concerted effort to focus on gratitude creates a foundation of joy to carry you through the hectic holiday season.

There you go! Print these out. Pin them. Tweet them. Share them. Do whatever you need to do to remind yourself of these tips throughout the next few weeks of holiday hubub. I hope some of these will inspire you and help you to more fully enjoy the season!

Happy Holidays!

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Aby Garvey is a creative organizing expert and simplify 101’s founder. She has created 14 online organizing classes, which she has been teaching since 2007, helping thousands of people around the world get organized. Aby loves to help people create positive change in their lives through her online classes and coaching program

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  • December 14, 2012 at 6:57 pm

    Focusing on gratitude can be difficult to remember in the stress of this season but it is so important to do on a daily basis!! It can change your whole outlook in a matter of minutes!

    • December 17, 2012 at 9:07 am

      Thanks, Sue. I agree. Gratitude really is a powerful way to shift your outlook! Thanks for your comment. ~ Aby