Has this ever happened to you? You go on vacation and have a wonderful time. You feel completely relaxed and refreshed – exactly how you’d expect to feel after a vacation. But then…you unlock the front door of your home and within minutes you feel the relaxation drain right out of you! Your stress level is higher than the stack of mail that piled up on the counter while you were away. You start to wonder, was it really worth it? If this sounds familiar, next time you head out for a getaway, give these ideas a try.
1) Leave your home clean and clutter free.
I remember many summer vacations that started with four Petersons (my dad, sister, brother and I) sitting (impatiently) in the car waiting for my mom. My mom made it a point to clean the house, and get everything picked up and put away before we left for our summer camping vacations. While this practice used to dive me bit batty as a kid, I think Mom was onto something. One of the best ways to extend the tranquility of vacation is to come back to a home that is clean and clutter-free. Take some time in the days leading up to your departure to clean and tidy up your home. Anything you do before you leave will make coming home more enjoyable.
2) Schedule a recovery day.
It can be tempting to try and eek out every last minute of your vacation time into your actual vacation, but you’ll find it easier to get back into your regular routine if you build in a cushion. Schedule a day at home after getting back from your trip to unpack and regroup casually and without rushing. This extra day will also help you adjust to vacation time zone changes or schedule changes.
3) Bring home clean laundry.
Okay…this one isn’t for everyone and may only work for certain types of vacations, such as if you’re staying in a rental home or visiting relatives. But doing laundry while you’re away means one less huge task to do when you get back home. I love returning home from a trip with a suitcase full of clean clothes. In fact, I love it so much that I really don’t mind doing laundry while I’m away. (Your results may vary…but if the post-vacation laundry pile-up causes you tremendous stress, this one could be worth a try.)
4) Shop consciously while you’re away.
Souvenirs are a terrific way to savor your vacation memories for years to come, but just be sure you don’t bring home future clutter. Look for meaningful souvenirs that can become a permanent part of your home décor such as framed photograph or print. Jewelry (like a charm for your charm bracelet) or a Christmas ornament can offer other meaningful and clutter-free souvenir options.
5) Unpack your suitcase.
A lingering, packed suitcase is just a lasting reminder that your vacation is over. Although unpacking isn’t a terribly enjoyable task, it probably takes less time than you think. Plus, nothing will make you feel settled back into life at home quite like having those suitcases unpacked and put away. Make it a goal to unpack within 24 hours of returning home, and see how this eases the stress of being back from vacation.
6) Triage the mail.
A big stack of mail can be intimidating, which means you’ll feel tremendous relief if you deal with it soon after returning home. To make a thick pile less intimidating, start by pulling out all of the magazines and catalogs. Recycle any magazines or catalogs you don’t need, and keep the rest in a stack. (I bet your big mail pile just got a whole lot shorter – gotta’ love that.) Sort the remaining mail into three stacks: items to deal with right away (bills, invites that need response and anything else that requires quick attention), items to recycle right away, and items to read and handle later. Put this last pile with the magazines and catalogs, and then, get busy dealing with your mail that requires quick attention. By prioritizing the important and urgent actions, your vacation backlog will feel a lot less intimidating.
7) Plan something fun at home after your vacation.
Let’s face it, coming home from a vacation that you’ve anticipated for months can be a huge letdown, which makes taking care of the necessary chores at home even harder to swallow. A terrific antidote is to plan something fun for when you return home. This could be as simple as ordering carryout from your favorite restaurant or taking a trip to the local ice cream shop. Or plan a get together with friends for a week or so after you get home (and best yet, make it an out-of-the-house event!)
The most important thing to remember when you get back from a vacation is that it’s okay if things got behind while you were away. Life continued on while you were out of town, so it’s to be expected that things got piled up. Go easy on yourself as you adjust back into life at home.
Leave a comment if you give any of these ideas a try. I’d love to hear how they work for you and hear your strategies for minimizing vacation stress.